… have you received already? most of us receive enough invitations each year to keep us busy every weekend in december, and then some. the best thing you can do to keep your peace is say, "no." it can be difficult, but by choosing only a few gatherings that are the most important to you, you'll be able to promote a sense of peace and community that will ensure you feel uplifted, rather than drained. create family traditions you probably remember certain traditions that your … one day per week that is a special "family only" time. then take the opportunity to unplug and spend time with one another. no television, no toy commercials, just time to talk about your day. here are a few ideas for family-only activities: play a board game bake christmas cookies decorate …