Some people think it’s too hard to forgive certain offenses, or they believe they have a right to remain angry and bitter. But the truth is—forgiveness is a choice…and it is also a command.

God has two reasons why He requires us to forgive anyone and everyone:

1. It’s a prerequisite for our own forgiveness. Jesus emphasized this point on two different occasions. First, in Matthew 18, in the parable of the unforgiving debtor, where we learn the fate of those who refuse to forgive. Second, in Mark 11:25, when He said, “If you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins” (NIV).
2. Our prayers will not work without forgiveness. The first part of Mark 11:25 is the key: “And when you stand praying…forgive.” Prayer will not work without forgiveness. If you’ve been praying for something and you just can’t seem to get an answer, check your heart for unforgiveness. Ask the Holy Spirit to bring any grudge that’s hidden in your heart to the light. Unclog the channel of faith by forgiving, and you will soon see things you’ve been praying for come to pass.

It's important to remember that every one of God’s commands is for our good, not just the good of others. When it comes to forgiveness, it has been scientifically proven that unforgiveness damages the brain and has been linked to countless diseases. And it prevents you from being fully happy!

No matter how difficult it may seem, make the decision to always forgive everyone, no matter how bad the offense. It will keep you happy, healthy and a continual recipient of all the blessings God has for you.

Find A 3-Step Plan for Total Forgiveness HERE.